Basic Step-By-Step Program to EFT Failure
EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Method, and it is the new meridian tapping technique for resolving emotional and physical problem, with ease. With tongue firmly in cheek, here are 7 classic mistakes to avoid, if you want results with EFT… – Indulge Your Client’s Need to have To Talk They’ve probably come to you from
EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Method, and it is the new meridian tapping technique for resolving emotional and physical problem, with ease.
With tongue firmly in cheek, here are 7 classic mistakes to avoid, if you want results with EFT…
– Indulge Your Client’s Need to have To Talk
They’ve probably come to you from 20+ sessions of counseling, so make positive you accommodate your client’s want for never ending chat and commentary about their whole life without ever getting to the real difficulty, and possibly (possibly) you are going to get to one particular round of tapping at the end of the session.
Continually speak ABOUT their several diverse problems with no ever actually acquiring in to any of them.
– Oversell & Underdeliver
When promoting EFT, make no comparisons to the healing speed of counseling, traditional medicine, or any other extensively used modality that would make EFT seem favourable.
As an alternative, concentrate on the miracle a single-minute-wonder properties of this mysterious new eastern approach.
Make certain to emphasis that it works for everybody, without having exception.
– Insist On Undertaking It “Just Like Gary”
Study Gary Craig’s EFT DVDs, take the nuggets of learning.
Practice with clients in precisely the identical way. Do not enter into any type of flexibility. Don’t let your self to use anything other than EFT.
Do not even think about just having a basic conversation with your client. And do not tap on a distinct phrase unless Gary has explicitly demonstrated it ahead of you.
– Use EFT Liberally As Your Celebration Trick
In hushed tones, with as considerably ego as possible, tell your pals you have discovered the missing hyperlink that quickly cures all ills.
Gather huge crowds about to witness your grandiose showmanship and semi-religious healing abilities.
Also attempt receiving yourself in as a lot of high pressure broadcasting scenarios as feasible.
Particularly look for complicated issues with several elements for these scenarios, as they are well identified for their a single-minute-wonders.
– Take It All Very Personally
When a client realises that clearing situation X, needs first clearing issue Y, and gets scared off, instantly really feel quite hurt and rejected and do not tap on it.
Take their need to deal with issues at their pace as an indicator of your dire incompetence as a therapist, and decide that really this EFT game is not for you right after all.
– Do Not Stick to Up With Preceding Clients
Right after finishing with a client, make confident you don’t mention how EFT can also support with their other issues, or even their friends’ issues.
Never set the expectation when functioning with customers that you will call them in a handful of weeks to verify on their progress. That would look like you care, and may possibly lead to a lot more bookings (or, even worse, referrals!…)
And, setting up an auto responder to do it for you automatically is just plain nuts!!
– Scavenge Mercilessly For That Missing Information
Continually flick from book to book, weblog to blog, internet site to internet site, hunting for the elusive EFT nugget you’ve been missing all this time.
Specifically following you were unable to aid one particular certain client with multiple problems and excellent expectations. Assume you happen to be performing one thing incorrect, that EFT “does not function”, and, with manic ADHD, devour as considerably EFT news and info as you can, as rapidly as you can, in case you miss something. My God, it may possibly even be the subsequent ‘law of attraction’.
Meanwhile, get nothing at all accomplished, see no clientele, generate no new items or trainings, stick to up on zero earlier buyers, make zero income.
I’ve got much more…but you get the concept.
How several of these blunders are you making? It is surprising how many competent and hugely trained therapists make these biggies. As I’ve mentioned, I’m no exception.
These days, I prefer to aim for accomplishment, by regularly carrying out the opposite of that above. Clientele seem to like that far more (me also).
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